(f) Chrissy ( Luvbunny14@hotmail.com ) who masturbates "4 times a week" asks:
Everytime I masterbate I never get any sensation. It bothers me so much. I don't plan on having sex till I am married and this makes it so hard for me! please help!
Dear Chrissy;
Kick back and relax and enjoy it more...no pressure or what ever.
(m) rodman who masturbates "1-2 a day" asks:
well, the only way i enjoy masturbation is using soap. it gives such an extraordinary feeling.Anyway, I face a true problem. the skin of the head of my penis which used to be so soft and red is starting to become-how can I describe it-like CLINT EASTWOOD'S SKIN. It is full of wrinkles and lines. The question is what can I do? does that part of the skin (the glans) renew?.What can I do? I am so desperate.
p.s: I understand that if this happened to any part of my skin it would be gone in a day or two (this is the effect of soap) But I feel that the skin of my penis' head is different.
Dear Rodman;
Yes the skin on the head of the penis is different! Soap is drying as well as cleansing...you should try a facial creme that is moisturising and use it after your shower routine. Nothing to worry about as long as you practice what we preach.
(f) pandi from Philadelphia who masturbates "Twice or thrice a week" asks:
I just started masturbating a year ago. I am a virgin and I feel like I don't experience a full orgasm. I feel like it's just a passing feeling, like a sudden surge and then nothing, leaving me disappointed. Am I doing something wrong, is there a plan of how to excite yourself, how do others do it?
Dear Pandi;
Trying to suggest ways that would solve your orgasm equation would be like telling you to read all the books found in the library of congress! We suggest you continue to play and experiment until the rocket explodes or what ever you want to call it. You are not doing anything wrong...be patient...and enjoy yourself.
(m) anonymous from Indianapolis who masturbates "Around two times a day" asks:
Is there a way to Masturbate and cum while not reaching orgasm?
Dear Anon;
Yes, press the space between your testicles and anus immediately before you cum. Good luck.
(m) need2cum who masturbates " once a day" asks:
I love silk panties and i often wear them at night. I love the feeling of silk against my penis. I'm not gay,but silk just turns me on .I also get turned on when i watch people masturbate. I would like to know if this is normal.
Dear Need;
Silk is OK! It is normal to get turned on when you are watching people engage in masturbation or any other explicit sex act.
(m) Rick ( a0008328@airmail.net ) from Dallas who masturbates "2-3 times/day weekdays, 5-7 times weekends" asks:
I'm a nudist/exhibitionist who loves to be nude and loves to masturbate! I hate to wear clothes and I love to pleasure myself, shamelessly, at the beach, on my boat, in my car, anywhere and anytime I can get away with it. However, I am not a "flasher" type, just someone who loves to be naked and feel good, and am only interested in being seen by those who want to watch. I have been fortunate enough to have partners and friends who have shared or tolerated my self-pleasuring in the past, but am currently not in any situation where I can truly share my love of nudity, masturbation and freedom with others. The most wonderful feelings I have known have been when I was masturbating for and audience. A Jack and Jill Club sounds like heaven to me, I would love to masturbate casually and socially with any ladies who'd like to watch, and I'd love to watch them too! Is there any similar organization near me ( Dallas ) where I might find this kind of companionship? I'd sure appreciate your help, and I think it's wonderful what your doing
Dear Rick;
I don't know off-hand of any clubs in Dallas, but you should post at the forum and see what pops up.
(m) Joe who masturbates "2-3 times a week" asks:
I was wondering that if you masturbate too often could this cause problems. I've noticed that lately my testicles are sagging down and painful. I also noticed that it doesn't take as long to blow my load. Any idea how I can last longer went I'm with my girlfriend.
Dear Joe;
As far as we know there is nothing wrong with masturbation. AS far as your performance goes with your girl friend we suggest you slow down a little bit and let her take the lead. Good luck.
(m) sobador who masturbates "once a day" asks:
well. after i ejaculate my penis is still erect, what do you think about it, it is normal or not, is there any solution, what what do you suggest to me
Dear Sobador;
Keep on having fun. If you feel sexy go for another cum. It's your penis and your sensuality.
(m) rodriguez who masturbates "twice a day" asks:
every day when i get up a i have an erection, i don´t how to stop it, what do you think that i need to do
Dear Rod;
Go to the bathroom and then come back to bed.
(f) Donna ( slpkat@aol.com ) from Plano who masturbates "once a night" asks:
I masturbate each and every night whether it's from cyber sex or in the middle of the night after hot sex with my husband, in fact my fingers are busy as i type this, anyways, i wanted to know if there is anything wrong with having anything too deep in my pussy each and every night. I always have something shoved up to my cervix
Dear Donna;
Our motto is: "If it feels good do it!" We use this philosophy on everything but drugs and alcohol, which we don't do!! Have fun.
(m) Wondering ( jbhutchi@valdosta.edu ) from Valdosta who masturbates "often" asks:
Is there any health damage or sexual disfunction(s) associated with masturbating too much? Will I become impotent due to masturbation? Wondering
It is impossible to masturbate too much. Impossible!
(m) Dan the Masterbater who masturbates "3 times a week" asks:
Hey,
I was wondering if just because i want to masterbate with another guy, it makes me gay? Also, what happens at Jack & Jill parties? Does everyone just get naked and jack himself and other people off? Do they have Co-ed Jack & Jill parties? Thanks
Dear DTM!
Most Jack & Jill parties are co-ed masturbation get-togethers for couples and singles of both sexes. It would be difficult to describe what goes on at any party but you are close in your assumptions! It is very visual, exciting and hot to say the least! Masturbation should be the focus at a good Jack & Jill party, not a by-product. Oh! You are not gay because you want to masturbate another guy.
(f) Samantha who masturbates "3-4 times a week" asks:
I have a tendency to use the jet of my showerhead to masturbate. I do this a few times a week just because its very satisfying and intense, but I was wondering if all that water will do any damage.
Dear Sam;
No! As long as you can pay your water bill...keep it up! |