(m) dick from st louis who masturbates "daily" asks:
many of the stories I read state how much the female in the story cums all over herself. I may have missed something in my 55 years of life, but I have never seen or heard of a woman cumming like a guy. Question to you two, Have you ever seen a woman ejaculate so to speak?
Dear Dick;
Indeed they do! Though rare, they are a delight to watch and play with...literally! One beautiful young redhead cums so much she would shame a room-full of men!
(m) rich who masturbates "daily" asks:
Wanker from Kansas City- asked how to keep his dildo in his ass while masterbating. One answer is to put on a jock strap backwards and this will hold the dildo in place allowing him to use both hands on his cock and balls and even walk around with it in. A small butt plug works best and he can even go out in public with no-one suspecting what is in his ass.
Dear Rich;
Thank you for your help. Our readers after all are the best playground we know of for techniques and adventure.
(m) wondering who masturbates "at least once a day" asks:
How do you measure your dick? from the top or the side
Dear wondering;
From the top!
(m) DF ( hyguy@hotmail.com ) from Louisiana who masturbates "once or twice a day" asks:
My g/f has really been pressuring me to be circumcised. What affect will circumcision have on masturbation? Will removal of my foreskin take away from the pleasure of masturbation or make harder to do? My g/f will not give me oral sex unless I have my penis circumcised. She says that from all she has read and been told by her Mom, sisters and g/fs that foreskins are dirty and she also feels that cocks with foreskins are ugly. Please help me. I love my g/f but I am afraid that I might not be happy if I do this.
Dear DF;
We couldn't agree with you more! Find a new g/f that appreciates the 'skin....they're out there!
(m) Penis Man from Hamilton who masturbates "1-7 times a week" asks:
I am interested in urethral stimulation. I have used a long wire coated in plastic, it is used for my sister's hair styling. I was interested in inserting a larger object into my penis, how big is too big? Also, is it safe to masturbate and ejaculate with the object in my penis?
Dear PM;
Although it is safe to gradually introduce larger and larger sizes of rods into your opening we suggest you do it carefully each time you up the diameter of the instrument. Anything that does not cause you unwanted pain would be OK in this case.
(m) Peter who masturbates "2 times weekly" asks:
May I know how to achieve multiple orgasms when masturbating? Is there a way to achieve orgasm without ejaculating?
Dear Pete;
Yes, get the book entitled ESO (Extended Sexual Orgasm) from a good book store and read and learn from it. It has stuff in there that can help you for the rest of your life.
(m) Hoop ( HoopNMan@aol.com ) from NYC who masturbates "6-7 times a day" asks:
I masturbate A LOT! I also have a small penis (4 inches erect for you nosey people). I was wondering if masturbation will stretch my penis or make it bigger over time?
Dear Hoop;
Yes it will, but not appreciably so. We suggest in your case that you enjoy the ride...where ever your penis and orgasm takes you. After all you have only yourself to please.
(m) iRoNSmAsH from Chicago who masturbates "1-2 times a day *HARD*" asks:
Do you have any tips to help increase the intensity of my orgasm? I love shooting my load accross the room and that only occurs occasionally.
Yes, plenty of rest and a balanced diet will do the trick...and try some vitamins as well.
(m) ouch asks:
Ok, I was jacking off the other day, and the next day a region of the head was really sore. So the day after that I didn't have any feeling at all in that area. It's a small area of the head and a little of the shaft. There is no feeling there, and the skin feels dry. Will this heal?
Dear Ouch;
Yes it will heal in a few days. If not try some ointment (medicated) for a day or two. If it hasn't healed by the end of this week consult your family doctor.
(m) luber from Boston who masturbates "about 5 times a week" asks:
I was wondering where you got your information about using petroleum products as a lube. The reason I ask, is that I would like to check out the info for myself. You see, I have tried many lubes and the only ones I like have petrolatum in them. Using soap caused a stinging sensation in my penis after I finished masturbating. Are there any lubes that are similar in feel to petrolatum that aren't as dangerous?
Dear luber;
We get our information from 7 years of experience with multiple partners and telling of their problems with vaseline and petroleum based products. You don't have to stop...just be advised. As far as checking it out for yourself...go for it. Search the web.
(m) obsessed from washington dc who masturbates "as often as possible (usually once a day)" asks:
I was wondering if you knew of any magazines or books dedicated specifically to masturbation. I jerk off to playboy and penthouse all the time, but I am looking for something more focused on masturbation. Also...have you ever heard of the "towel" technique for a man to masturbate? I use it all the time, and i would like to share it with everyone.... -after the penis is erect, and lubricated, you fold a towel length wise, and wrap the penis up in it.....then you grab both sides of the towel, firmly, and thrust in and out of the "hole". It is a great simulation for a vagina..... Thanks!!!
Dear Ob;
Never heard of the towel technique, we'll have to try it some day. As for the books, magazine or videos we can only say that what ever turns you on is what is good for you. It may not be as good a thing for anyone else. It is not important to you what may make me (lg) happy or vice versa. And, your interest will probably change from one day to the next as well as one year to the next as you get older.
(m) Bent out of Shape from Ft Lauderdale, Flordia who masturbates "3-5 times a day" asks:
Hi, I've been JO for about 5 years now and i'm a little curious, My dick is slightly curved and I wanted to know if there was any sort of method to make me straight.
Dear Bent;
None that we know of except change hands when masturbating for about 5 years. The curve and direction usually have no importance when it comes to satisfaction...or satisfying your partner(s).
(m) 7oz who masturbates "once or twice a day" asks:
I have heard that it is possible to stimulate your self using small amounts of electricity. Is this true and if so how would I go about doing this?
Dear 7oz;
Yes, there is a little device (quite expensive really...$550 range) similar to the Vandegraf generator (high voltage, low current) that you can play with while you are playing. It is called "The Violet Wand", so named we suppose because of the violet light this contraption emits while you are using it. To date no one that we saw using it has complained from it's use...or died sooo we suppose we would have to give this little tool an A rating at the moment.
(m) Joe who masturbates "at least once a day" asks:
I want to stretch my scrotum. I know that it is designed to keep my testicals at an ideal temperature for sperm grrowth that's why it contracts and expands, but I don't care about that. I want a sac that always dangles. I want a sac that will slap the skin of the person I am fucking. Is there any way that I can stretch my scrotum so that my balls always hang low. I don't want to have surgurey or anything extreme like that for the desired effect. Please, some practical ideas. Thank you.
Dear Joe;
The best one that we have heard of that works is as follows: Get some surgical clamps (small ones, about 2 should do the trick), clamp one side to your balls and the other to as much weight as you can bear to your testicles. Start out with fishing weights and gradually work up until you have perhaps a pound hanging between your legs. Leave the weights on as long as possible, all day perhaps, if you can take it. After a few weeks you should notice a difference. Now here is the bad news....when you stop the stretching routine your nut sack will return to it's orginal size. It's the nature of things to do this. Enjoy.
(m) Jack who masturbates "3 times a week." asks:
I've been wanking for a number of years now, and previously far more so than I do now, but as a result, I think I've becomed somewhat desensitized. Well, mostly the head. During oral sex I cannot even feel anything done to the head itself. I stimulate the head somewhat heavily during masturbation. Is there any way to regain the sensitivity?
Dear Jack;
Yes, stop masturbating the way you do and leave the head alone....other wise....learn to live with it.
(m) TWPS who masturbates "1 - 3 times a day (sometimes more)" asks:
My friend told me that if you tie a string around your testicles that it will block the sperm from coming out when you ejaculate and will allow you to masturbate several times without having to wait. Is this true, and is it a good idea? I've never tried it, but he claims it to work wonders.
Dear TWPS;
Isn't there a better way to achieve the same results....? The sperm is not blocked, instead it is reabsorbed into the body. It is neither a good or bad idea...it is just different.
(f) Rene from Atlanta who masturbates "less often than most guys it would seem" asks:
I am 20 and so is my boyfriend, Brad. I have an 18-year-old brother, Craig who really looks up to Brad. Sometimes when I have to work Brad and Craig hang out together. I found out from Brad that he and my brother recently had a jerk off session together while at his apartment watching some porns. I am not worried about Brad taking advantage of my brother or anything, I just wonder is this normal?
Dear Renee;
Yes it is normal. Don't worry.
(m) HornyMan from Cleveland who masturbates "once a day" asks:
I love to masturbate and I love to cum. The problem I face is that I can't seem to keep it up long enough to cum more than once. Is there any technique you can suggest that could help me with this?
Dear HM;
Not really! It is in the wanting to that usually takes you to the other level. If you don't...you won't...get it.
(m) Scott who masturbates "thrice weekly" asks:
Are there any things that are dangerous to do while masturbating?
Dear Scott;
Yes quite a few really. You shouldn't drive a car or operate heavy machinery while masturbating...everything else should be OK though.
(m) Joe ( JoeWide@rocketmail.com ) from Boston who masturbates "once a week or less, or up to 5 times a week" asks:
Ok, well I don't masturbate as much as I'd like to, but this is because after I masturbate I feel terribly tired and have a sickness feeling that sometimes lasts for a week or more, I get really shaky a trembly for days afterward, it's not psychological I can assure you, I know this is not normal and was wondering if you could provide an explanation. My body also gets really skinnier afterwards, for some reason?
Dear Scott;
You must be doing something terribly wrong. We suggest you seek the advice and counsel of your family physician asap. Let this trained professional watch your performance and they should be able to tell in one visit just exactly what you're doing wrong and straighten it out for you! Good luck.
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