by LoveThyself! » Fri Apr 13, 2007 1:13 pm
Watching someone masturbate is like a window into their most intimate experience, and I think everyone at some level has a voyeur quality deep inside. I mean, just look in the chatroom next time you're camming, Tuff... TONS of blue "v" for the one or two green ones!
As far as watching guys specifically, your question reminds me of a thread that ilikeitalot posted where is shows what guys look at versus what girls do, and while a woman typically looks just at the face, a man will look at the package as well. I guess it's left-overs from when we were more base animals (think of how dogs greet one another).
But I share your enthusiasm... I love watching the guys stroke off in the chat rooms... and I've had several live mutual experiences with men, women and mixed groups... it's a LOT of fun to be surrounded by people doing the same thing you are... it creates an unseen energy that fuels the desire and you can all tap into it. That will occasionally happen in the chat room, too, which may be a way to ease the Mrs. into the whole 'mutual' idea.
Lastly... it's ok to be curious, too - even to want to do more than just watch. I think that happens with a lot of men as they get older. I won't get into the semantics of the definition of straight, because it means different things to different people (and I think there are several threads on that here already) but my question to you is this... have you noticed an increase in this curiosity as you've matured? As a fellow naturist, you've been around all of this a long time now, and I imagine you were probably hard-core 'straight' early on... how has that changed over the years? If that's too deep for public, feel free send a private message and we can set something up to chat (while naked and camming, of course!) Who knows, maybe your wife would like to join, too!
Namaste'
