by raincoaster » Mon Oct 29, 2007 3:37 pm
I have been married for nearly 30 years, and have no doubts that I'm straight. I'm turned on by women, and love straight fucking.
Sure, when I was a kid I had a lot of experiences with a bunch of my friends (all male), which included getting naked together in various places (frequently outdoors), looking at each other's cocks, touching each other, giving each other erections, etc. We basically learned how to masturbate together, and would do that standing around in a group watching each other, and eventually doing mutual masturbation while others watched. But that was as a kid, and is probably just a variation on some of the things all boys do together growing up (don't know if girls do that sort of thing). And I think all here know that doesn't make you gay or bi.
I have considered myself a nudist all my life and, as a result, have been naked with hundreds of other men and women. I began visiting our city's nude beach as a teen, and have never stopped going. I go naked in our home, have been nude in friend's homes, and have male friends I hike nude with, in the forested areas outside city limits. So I'm pretty used to naked bodies, both male and female.
Like every other man, I've also masturbated all my life, not for any fantasy involved or because my sex life at home isn't good, but just for the feelings of cumming when you want to, and giving yourself the exact touching you want at the time.
I suppose because of the experience of being nude among others since childhood, I can appreciate both female and male bodies. Now traditional nudists always say that nudism is not sexual in any way, and I suppose in the sense that you aren't always leaping on your fellow nudists, it isn't. But to tell the truth, I think we ALL look, both men and women. If a naked woman walks by me at the beach, I try not to be obvious about it, but do look at her boobs, bum and her cunt. And if a naked man walks by me, I also look at his cock, balls and bum. My point is, I get turned on by looking at women's naked bodies, but I also like to look at men's cocks. We are all there to see and be seen.
Again, traditional nudists always say you don't get erections in a nudist setting. Well, I do at the beach, and quite frequently. It can be from the breeze on my cock or looking at nude women nearby, but it can also be from watching a bunch of naked guys playing volleyball. I have seen LOTS of other men at the beach with erections, and I have sat with friends while I had an erection, and while they had erections. When I go nude hiking with my friends, some or all of us have erections a good deal of the time.
I have a friend I have been going to the beach with for years, but this year we started jacking off together, partly as a result of my having an erection in front of him that started us talking about jacking off. We had seen each other naked literally hundreds of times, and had both had erections in front of each other and just laughed it off.
Don't think it makes me gay or bi, because I have no desire for anal intercourse or anything like that. Turns out we both like jacking off, have been naked together a lot, have seen each other's boners, so its no big deal to do it together. As rocket said in an earlier post, "no real love, just a love of getting off".
And if we are honest, how many others here who consider themselves straight don't enjoy looking at other men's cocks. Doesn't make you gay or bi... maybe just human.
Anyway, pretty long winded and I guess posts should be short and to the point, but if anyone wants to discuss any of this further, just PM me.
sex: male
orientation: straight, married 28 years
cock: little over 6 inches hard, 4 1/2" soft
interests: home and beach nudist
circumsized: yes
jerk off: once daily, naked